♫ Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes. Five hundred twenty-five thousand moments so dear. Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes. How do you measure, measure a year? How about seeeeex? ♫
From the mental to the physical to the “huh, I never thought of that!”, there are quite a few variables that go into picking the perfect toy. Rather than slap a bow on some random dildo, you should consider the recipient and what matters most to them (and their naughty bits).
From bees to Victorian-era steam machines mid-century electrical appliances, the history of the vibrator is a amazing tale full of intrigue and greatness. Here’s a sampling of just a few vibrators throughout history -- and how they comes a woman's best friend.
Bust open your trust-funds or scratch off that winning million dollar lottery ticket. Here are some of the most expensive, luxurious, and downright ridiculously gauche sex toys that you (or, more accurately, someone with offshore bank account) can buy.
You don't have to be like Scarface and whip out all the goodies at once. Instead, take your time, and wait until you've had a few sessions under your belt before bringing up the idea of using sex toys together.
Initially marketing for sore necks and backs, the Magic Wand was also being recognized for soothing other parts of the body as well. As early as the 1970's women quickly realized this hand-held device could be used off-label (ahem) for clitoral stimulation.
No more lugging your comforter to a laundromat to wash it every week. Get a little messy with body paints? Just throw down your Liberator Fascinator Throw and you won’t have to fight over who has to sleep on the sticky spot. Hands get a little slippery during a massage? Craving some period sex? I think you get my point.
I tend to think that it changes your expectations rather than sensations. A vibrator can feel more intense and work faster than your hand or mouth. After some time, you can grow to expect that level of sensation and that reaction from your body.
It can be hard for someone to get over the socially-imposed guilt of using a sex toy. But when it comes to enjoying a personal relationship with your body as well as you sexual wellness, there is no reason to feel ashamed. Here are some ways to overcome pleasure-shaming.
You're not alone sister! I always thought why should I novices jerk him off when he's been doing this forever. When my man expressed his wishes of a HJ I informed him of my incompetence, and he showed me how he likes to touch himself and I followed suit; he likes his foreskin pulled over his head...
