Thank goodness for the B-Vibe Rimming Anal Plug. My partner and I agree that this is a great toy for solo or partnered play. It really has become one of the go-to toys for us. We like it because it works consistently and without effort and frustration, has a great sensation, a strong vibration, and is easy to clean up.
You're not alone sister! I always thought why should I novices jerk him off when he's been doing this forever. When my man expressed his wishes of a HJ I informed him of my incompetence, and he showed me how he likes to touch himself and I followed suit; he likes his foreskin pulled over his head...