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Jedi Mouth Tricks: How to Amp Up Your Oral Sex Skills

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Jedi Mouth Tricks: How to Amp Up Your Oral Sex Skills

Blow Job Tricks that Will Blow His Mind

Giving oral sex can make anyone feel like a smoking hot and powerful version of the 1970’s Wonder Woman or Superman. There's great satisfaction in giving someone pleasure simply from using your mouth. But what would you say about doubling your lover's pleasure and doubling the fun? A great way of amping up oral sex skills is by including prostate or anal play with your blow jobs.

Get the Juice Flowing

Like any great performer, you’ll definitely want to warm up before getting busy, especially when you are adding an anal element to the party. First, let's take care of you. Increase the flexibility of your jaw by doing some gentle yawn exercises. Also, prepare your mouth for his special kiss by sucking on a piece of candy. Not only will your mouth taste yummy, but it will also help produce more saliva, which can help prevent lockjaw.

Just the Tip

For some men, the underside of their penis tip (glans) is the most sensitive. So, going beyond that point may be fruitless. When going for the load, try focusing your tongue on his frenulum (the elastic band of tissue under the glans that connects to the foreskin). With a light touch of your tongue, tease that area with soft circular motions. You can use your hand to gently stroke him. However, all of the attention should be on just the tip. When he’s ready to pop, place your mouth just slightly over the head and apply a soft sucking motion.

Hand Jive

So here’s a great solution for women having problems executing their blow job tricks. Get some really good lube. I like the kind that gets warm. The heat from the lube will feel like the inside of the mouth or vagina. Squirt a lot of it into your hands and wrap your thumb and index finger loosely around his shaft (like an O.K. sign). Build tension using long, gentle strokes at first, going from the base of his cock to the tip. As he becomes more aroused, include more fingers until your entire hand is squeezing with pressure. Also, don’t neglect the balls. When it comes to a great handjob, stimulating a man's testicles is like delivering the first line of great performance; it's not the part that gets a standing ovation, but it sure sets the stage for something great. When he’s ready to unload his juice, just cup them gently and apply some pressure as he ejaculates.

Job Sharing

The mouth and hands don’t have to take the first shift of the blow job. By having intercourse first, your vagina can do most of the work for you. Try using a position (reverse cowgirl) where you can move in quickly and have instant access to his penis. When he is getting close to climaxing, change position, and give him the oral stimulation and finish him off. Your vagina will limit the time it takes for him to achieve orgasm and will save your jaw from aching. Also, he’ll appreciate being able to just lie back and let you do all the work.

Solo Practice

When mouth-on-penis is not even an option, help your buddy out a little. Try something that is packed with sensual goodness and is fun to use together. The ultimate in simulated blow jobs is the Fleshlight Turbo Ignition Oral Sex Simulator. Invented by people who know good blow jobs tricks, this male stroker goes beyond the feeling of a vagina—it will actually feel like a hot, tight mouth.

More Blow Job Tricks

If your life is devoid of a vibrating male sex toy, you are missing out. Not only will you find a vibrator a reasonable substitute for blow jobs, but you’ll also find that ejaculating can feel more intense. The Vedo Hotrod Warming Stroker is a toy designed to enhance penis tip stimulation. It may look like a space-aged invention, but I assure you, when you place his lubed cock inside, it will feel like an old-fashioned blow job—all he has to do is close his eyes.

The Under Carriage

With all those built-in instruments, you can mix techniques until your lover's mind explodes. Don’t focus only on the penis. Play with his other erogenous zones to keep him on the edge. If you’re a skilled multi-tasker, you can mix two techniques at once. Start easy; tug the balls while licking the head of his dick. Then kick it up a notch, or two, or three.

Using a prostate toy like the LELO Loki Wave is a sure fire way to amp up your blow job tricks. This perfectly designed vibrator may look like it's for women, but is actually for male anal play. The slim structure and easy-to-use controls will let you give him all types of surprises.

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serenity
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I'm a very busy mom of 4 and my sex life is like that of a 95 year old widow ( I'm 33 and my youngest is 10). My husband and I have been married for 6 years and every year we have sex less and less. We are down to having sex like twice a year. I am willing to try whatever it takes so my husband can find me attractive again, but I am at a loss. Can you please help.
Tim
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Two suggestions... Learn his love language, and while you're at it, have him learn yours. Search Amazon for the Love Languages book, buy two copies, read a chapter of it every day and discuss it at bedtime. It has quizzes and things you can do to find out what he really wants from you besides your sex, and he'll begin to understand what you want from him. I think that book can save marriages. It's a short, easy read, and by the time you're done with it, you'll be communicating with each other more. Spouses who communicate more naturally become lovers. The second recommendation is to make your bedroom all but off limits to your children. They always must knock before coming in, and if you and your husband are both in the room, the door stays closed. This will be hard at first because it is a change, and the results won't be immediate, but over time your bedroom will become a more private, intimate place, and your husband will naturally start gravitating to your space. Better communication and privacy will get the sex flowing again. I almost guarantee it.
Jim
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Sounds like me and my first wife. Solution, Plan at least two times a week that you have sex. Never break the schedule. Add toys, videos whatever. Remember use it or lose it
JM
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I'm finding this even more challenging now that our children are grown and one (26 year old) is living at home. My husband is very shy about us being heard, seen or otherwise discovered which I get because I can be noisy, but I haven't yet been able to get him to agree to maybe gagging me or finding some fun in being sneaky. Tim has some good advice there. Let me also recommend the liberator throw, it's an easy signal when laid out under the covers on a made bed we use to quietly indicate the room is ready and one of us is in the mood. Also, I find there more I treat myself like I'm sexy the better I feel about being the initiator. Treat yourself regularly ;)
Mac
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we are a combo of the above scenarios and have been at various stages over the years (almosst 25 together and its my 2nd :) I can NOT recommend the love language series of books enough. They made a HUGE difference for us, I wish I had of found them in our first few years.!!! And the UNBREAKABLE date has had big results too, although I would recommend starting with only once every other week or once a week to start...if its only been a few times a year, twice a week is gonna seem insurmountable! Also, we dont have the liberator throw..yet..but we did have a special comforter that did almost the same thing. Just some thoughts....also, for the Lady who thinks her husband isnt interested...it may be more like stress and worry that isnt being dealt with....It will KILL the Libido in anyone...and maybe he doesnt KNOW how to share his thoughts and feelings quite well enough?!? This happened with us, but it was her HER stressing and couldnt talk very well about it....would also recommend book , "Men are like Waffles, Women are like Spaghetti" another great book....good luck, Peace and Blessings