Lustful Living: Create Your Own Erotic Playground, Part One

Couples worldwide are grappling with a familiar conundrum – how to keep those sparks sizzling and the flames of passion ablaze. Such a crusty tale, as old as time. Scroll through your social media feeds (I’m looking at you, Dead Bedrooms SubReddit), and you’ll find couples airing out their bedroom woes like an Olympic sport. Sex, the sweet, sweet nectar of life, often gets shoved to the back burner in the chaos of our daily grind. We lose sight of each other, forget what made us swoon, and soon enough, our bedroom becomes nothing more than a Netflix and snore zone.

There’s a solution to this steamy dilemma – but it requires focus, determination, and the willingness to flip your approach to intimacy and connection. Like a moose in heat, we will plow headfirst into the timeless issues plaguing couples and craft a roadmap to solve these sexy riddles. 

Are you prepared to become the architects of your very own erotic playground, to dedicate yourselves to the timeless art of seduction, and to uncover why Lustful Living is the key to setting your sex life ablaze? Hell yes! Prepare yourselves for an adventure that will leave your hearts racing and your sheets tangled – a journey toward the hottest, most electrifying connection you’ve ever experienced. 

Most folks use their bedroom as a multi-purpose room for everything: an office when they work from home, a lounging spot for watching TV, a crafting room (I have been so guilty of this in the past), a laundry staging area (does it EVER end?!?) and a pet jungle gym. While this is sometimes unavoidable, it steals all the mystique and sexiness from the room. Here’s my best advice: Save your bedroom for sleeping and fucking. Make the entire room a sex den that entices you and pulls you into that headspace. 

You can (and should) transform your bedroom into a lush, inviting boudoir with any of these pieces of convertible furniture. The hot, new Vaya Super Ramp folds open into a huge sloped ramp for creative positioning. When it’s folded closed, it’s a great platform for standing sex. Similarly, the Equus Wave and the Flip Stage offer the same kind of expansive support and easy storage. Any of these three beauties are good to go on your bed or the floor. 

Getting off the bed changes your perspective. Love loungers like the Esse Tantric Chair and Lyza Lounger II entice you to explore their curves and ever-so-stylishly accentuate the room. Lower, wider, and endowed with two support cushions (a headrest and mid scoop), the lush, velvety Esse Tantric Chair fulfills your Kama Sutra dreams.

Its kissing cousin, the Lyza Lounger II, comes in textured leather for a slick feel, with solid wood feet for stability and added height, plus a headrest. There’s something about the leather that feels especially modern, enticing and decadent. 

Last but not least, the newest addition to our collection, the Aria Convertible Chaise, is a master of sensual metamorphosis. Unfurl the top peak and knee rest to reveal the tantalizing, expansive contours, or enjoy the folded height for standing sex positions. Aria’s length makes it perfect for couples and thruples. Aria looks sensational and luxurious — it begs for you to touch its curves and ride on its contours.

Surely, nothing inhibits sexy time like kids, family, pets, and house guests. You have to steal moments here and there, worry about embarrassing noises or interruptions, and hide all your goodies. Keep your sexy secrets incognito (and close at hand) with subtle sex aids, inconspicuous toys, and clever containers. You don’t necessarily need a three-ring circus to create your own erotic playground.

Disguise your desires in plain sight with Liberator Shapes like the Heart Wedge, Whirl and Humphrey. There’s so much to love with the Heart Wedge – the adorable Shape comes in coordinating colors that suit any decor.

The Whirl Bolster Pillow bolster pillow looks like your average decorative bed bolster but with naughty D-rings hidden on the sides for light bondage play.

Our Humphrey pillow will be your new main squeeze after you tuck your cordless wand inside the pocket. No one will suspect their true purpose.

Everyone likes a good massage, so it makes sense to have one nearby. Le Wand Petite Rechargeable Massager has a beautiful, understated design that doesn’t scream sex toy. Plus, it fits perfectly in the Humphrey!

 Male strokers look so space-age now. LELO’s FS1 V2 resembles a dark, futuristic version of Alexa, but only this personal assistant knows how to give great head. It’s waterproof, which is ideal because you can always escape to the bathroom for privacy (unless your dogs scratch at the door like mine do). Curious about the male orgasm? Check out this excellent LELO article: Landscape of Male Orgasms.

For more compact thrills, the Arcwave Voy is your bro-on-the-go! Fully waterproof with zero electronics, so you don’t need batteries or charging. You control the tightness with a simple turn, and the sleek case is completely inconspicuous. 

Women’s sex tech has improved a lot in the past few decades. Ladies are no longer restricted to a few lame, loud choices. These tiny, sexy delights bring pleasure in a perfectly petite package you can tuck away in a toy bag or bed caddy – or leave on your nightstand. Le Wand Grand Bullet and the We-Vibe Tango X are both powerful mini vibrators, that deliver precise vibrations. Both are waterproof, rechargeable, and super quiet.

For next-level orgasms, the LELO Sona 2 Travel and Biird Namii have your number. Sona 2 Travel is a mini-size sonic vibrator that uses sound waves to tickle your clit and get you off.

Biird Namii is one of my favorites because it looks like a light blue butterbean and has its own light-up charging pod. The clitoral suction/vibration combo that it delivers is mind-blowing!

After you invest in premium sex toys, take the time to think about their proper storage and care. If you want a placemat for lube-slick toys (until you can wash them off), the Fascinator Toy Pad protects your bedside table and won’t let fluids leak through.

Just like the toy pad, the waterproof Fascinator Bedside Caddy neatly tucks under your mattress, draping over the side of your bed, giving you super easy access to your baubles. It’s handy and practical! You can even stick your cellphones, remotes, or Chapsticks in it. Both Fascinator products are fabulously machine-washable. 

Maybe you need a little more discretion – that’s where the Zappa and Tallulah Toy Bags shine. Both are lined with moisture-resistant nylon, so you can store, tote, and travel worry-free with your favorite lubes, massage oils, and toys. Zappa Toy Bag has a sleek micro suede exterior (and you can add your own tiny lock for extra security).

At the same time, Tallulah Locking Toy Bag features a micro suede body with faux leather trim plus an interlocking zipper and brass lock with key. An optimal solution for protecting your luggage or nightstand from leaks and corralling your toys during travel (I’m sure TSA gets a thrill scanning my suitcase) or snooping family members.  

Snap-crackle-POP! Injuries, aches, and the relentless specter of time catch up with us all. If you can’t hold a squat for half an hour, don’t sweat it.

For 20 years, Liberator has dominated the sex positioning market with their bestselling Wedge Ramp Combo. They are sex room essentials that give you better support so you can be more generous with oral, have killer doggy-style stamina, gain deeper penetration and enjoy greater overall satisfaction. The micro velvet fabric locks together, giving you more traction and stability.

If I had to pick a Liberator product for cramped spaces, I’d probably go with the Wedge Ramp Combo. You get so many possibilities with this minimal size and you can pull them out when the mood strikes. Stack them for added height under your hips or torso, or use them separately. Anal is also a LOT easier on the Shapes because they put your booty at the right angle.

Curved Shapes like the Jaz Motion and the brand-new Scoop Rocker Valkyrie Edition let you incorporate a rocking motion, enhancing rhythm and comfort. And you can flip them over for more stability. With its compact size, you can take the Jaz Motion on trips or stash it in your closet. This small wonder cushions your hips for easier oral access and more satisfying penetration.

Use the Scoop Rocker Valkyrie Edition shapes together or apart to tuck under your hips, boost your butt, or support your torso. The Scoop’s dense foam lets you get on top to rock n’ roll, so you can focus on the rhythm of your strokes. The Hipster is like the Ramp but with undulating contours, giving you good traction on memory foam mattresses and greater mobility when switching sex positions. Get comfy on its curves for lengthy oral action, deeper penetration in standing or wheelbarrow positions, or enjoy super stamina for doggy style.

Wait! Your sultry sex room isn’t complete yet. We have so much to explore, especially goodies like Sex Toy Mounts, BDSM furniture, sex blankets, and more! See something you like? Join us for Lustful Living: Part Two, to finish your vision and create your own erotic playground!