Start the New Year off with a bang with our 2023 Sexual Resolutions Guide.
The holidays have come and gone. Now begins the guilt-trip phase where committing to becoming a better person, partner, and lover is paramount! But as we all know, pledges typically fall by wayside faster than you can say Be My Valentine.
We at Liberator know this struggle all too well. That's why we decided to come up with a 2023 Sexual Resolutions Guide, where you stick to your best-laid plans.
Make 2023 the Sexiest Year Ever!
A year of amazing sex is not just about having a good time , but also about generating health and happiness...physically, emotionally and spiritually. After all, sex is known to lower the risk of heart attacks and strokes, decrease high blood pressure, reduce depression, relieve headaches, and improve sleep quality. In addition to these health benefits, sex will help open the dialogue between you and your partner. Connection and communication are vital to a thriving relationship.
Make a plan with us to fulfill these resolutions, and you will be a happier, healthier, sexier you by 2024.
2023 Sexual Resolutions: More Quickies
We know that your calendar is packed, and that sex with your partner sometimes takes a backseat to work or life events. Even when there is time for sex, you may feel too exhausted from the day’s schedule. This year, take fifteen minutes between that daily to-do list and ravish your partner (or yourself) instead.
While a quickie might seem like a temporary fix versus a passionate night dedicated to hours of lovemaking, a speedy romp can be just as exciting. The more you have sex, the stronger your desire for sex becomes. All those quickies add up.
2023 Sexual Resolutions: Focus on Your Partner
We’re all guilty of being selfish from time to time. So, take time this year to show your partner how much they are adored. It's easy--simply shower them with attention without expecting anything in return. Make your partner’s pleasure a priority. Perhaps a long massage or a night of sensational oral. Not only will you experience the immense satisfaction of your partner’s happiness, but that devotion will translate into a stronger intimate connection. And if you don't have a special someone, focus on yourself instead.
2023 Sexual Resolutions: Ask for More
Communication and trust are two of the biggest elements in a healthy sexual relationship. But it's a whole lot easier said than done. That's partly because we think our desires will be rejected if we ask for them because they are “inappropriate.” We might not know how to phrase our needs properly or feel silly saying the words out loud. A robust relationship is defined by two partners who have the desire to make each other deliriously happy. Your partner will get joy from seeing you enjoy yourself. So, don't be afraid of speaking up and letting your partner know what feels good. The more direction you provide, the more confident your partner will feel and the more pleasure you will receive. If you are feeling shy about vocalizing your intimate desires, try sending your partner a naughty text to start the conversation.
2023 Sexual Resolutions: Learn Something New
We all have sexual fantasies but might feel hesitant about taking the plunge. Make 2023 the year where you commit to learning something new. When you learn, you grow and so does your sexual relationship. Any worthwhile discovery doesn't come without facing a few challenges. Even if it ends up not being your thing, you’ll have something to giggle about with your friends. Maybe you want to learn shibari, focus on chastity play, get tethered to a St. Andrew's Cross, engage in a threesome, have sex outdoors, or experiment with a wild new toy. This is the year for taking deep breaths and diving in deep!
2023 Sexual Resolutions: Masturbate More!
Want to increase your sexual appetite in 2023? Try masturbating more. Solo pleasure time is one of the best ways of getting to know your body and soul. You might find new points of pleasure and fuel your fantasies. G-spot stimulation, direct clitoral contact, fingering or anal stimulation could open up entire new horizons of pleasure. Creating a positive connection to yourself is also key to building a stronger intimate connection with your partner too. You'll be better prepared to describe your experience and guide them.
So embrace passion, explore your desires, and live it up in 2023!
2023 Sexual Resolution: Come Together More Often
Having simultaneous orgasms may seem as elusive as winning the PowerBall Jackpot, but it's easier than you think. A survey conducted by Lovehoney found that almost four out of 10 couples (37%) share orgasms at least half the time they have sex. In half of cases, one partner reaches their trigger point and waits for the other half to catch up, according to the survey of 4,400 people. Coming together does not have to be wishful thinking, as there are a few things you can do to boost your chances of synchronized success. Here are just a few tips you can try as part of your 2023 Sex Goals:
-
Edging is the ultimate way of getting your body parts charged for orgasms. It's also a great way to know how the body reacts just before "discharge." Try bringing each other as close to the line as possible and then stop before the wave is about to hit. Practice this a few times and you will discover that this will bring you closer to coming together.
-
Not every woman can come with just penetration alone. In fact, most women require external clitoral stimulation which it why it's important to find a mutually beneficial position. Using the Liberator Wedge during Missionary can help tilt her hip upward so that the shaft of penis can stimulate her G-spot while his pelvis thrusts or his lower shaft grinds against the clitoris.
-
Coming together more in 2023 is achievable with the help of couple's toys. We love the LELO Tiani Duo. This wearable vibe curves over the clit to provide direct clitoral stimulation, leaving you hands-free for other fun. Another option is a slim-lined toy like the Love Not War Meile vibrator. The extended stylus fits perfectly between lovers and hits the sweet spot every time.
2023 Sexual Resolutions: Don't forget to Enjoy Your Sex Life
All of these pledges will absolutely make 2023 a year to remember. But one thing that will make it unforgettable is remaining in the moment. Enjoy every second of your sex life by staying present. Relish the quickies and all-nighters, the foreplay and experimentation. Embrace all the passion that sex has to offer and live it up in 2023!
How are you going to make 2023 the sexiest year ever? Let us know your sexual resolutions in the comments section below!
