I understand there is nothing wrong with sexual experimentation. I now use my sexual power in fulfilling ways; sharing it with a person who reciprocates, an even exchange of power, not one-sided. When I’m looking to evoke a certain mood, I can now confidently don a mask, play a character, or surrender to a role. I can be a whore, slut, tramp or prostitute because I “own” my sexuality. This tiny nugget of truth feels like a priceless jewel.