Sexual roleplay is one of those situations where you get out of it what you put into it. Sure, you could slap a name tag sticker on your tit and call yourself “Santa,” but you’re not gonna get the same thrill from a romp as if you had committed to your character and chosen scenario. I get it; we’re not actors (I mean unless you are one), so nailing down the details of a scene and sticking to them may seem overwhelming, especially since you won’t be working from a script.
But the work is definitely worth it, and you may just find the creative prep to be a turn-on in and of itself. If you’re lacking inspiration or need a jump start to your sex scene, steal from these detailed roleplay ideas the next time you want to play pretend.
Rockstar & Groupie
What is a musician without their adoring fans? Horny and lonely, that’s what. The fast and loose lifestyle that accompanies going on tour requires fast and loose groupies to satisfy a rockstar’s nightly needs. Channel your inner Penny Lane and Russel Hammond and bring some rhythm to your bedroom with this Billboard-worthy roleplay scenario.
Costumes
For rockstars:
Musicians are notoriously rebellious, a disposition they often express through their appearance. Take a walk on the wilder side of fashion with dark and daring style choices. An open vest (denim or leather only- your tweed work vest has no place here) sans shirt is perfect for showing off your rockstar bod, and you can even apply some realistic temporary tattoos if you’re lacking in the ink department and want to fully commit to your role. Leather cuffs will complete your edgy look and can be repurposed for play if your crazed fan is the kinky kind of crazy. And last but not least, make sure you pile on the black eyeliner and make it extra smudgy.
For groupies:
A groupie’s main goal is to attract the attention of the object of their desire, so subtlety will have no place in their wardrobe. A hefty amount of body glitter will help you stand out from a sea of other fans and aid in creating that cheap and trashy vibe you should be going for (no offense to actual groupies- I would 100% fuck any rando with a guitar if I thought there was even a slight chance they were famous). Grab an old band tee you don’t care about or purchase one from Goodwill and go to town with a pair of scissors for a heavily distressed top that leaves little to the imagination, and then you’re ready to rock ‘n roll.
Behavior & Communication
For rockstars:
Star power requires star confidence, so you’ll need an heir of cockiness (insert penis pun here) to sell your role. A take-charge or even entitled attitude is fitting, as celebrities are used to getting what they want when they want it, so feel free to be aggressive in displaying your interest. Try getting in tune with your character by lip-synching to a track that always turns you and your partner on during your seduction before the two of you move to the music with the bed as your stage.
For groupies:
Starstruck fans will do anything to gain the affection of their idol, which means there’s no room for acting coy. Everything you do should be overtly sexual, even bordering on desperate, to ensure your #1 crush notices you. For instance, you could ask for an autograph somewhere obscene (just make sure your marker is washable). Once you get down to the act, worship your rockstar’s body and show ample appreciation for them letting you backstage.
Tools & Props
You can’t make music without instruments (please don’t berate me in the comments, acapella fans), and you can’t make a good musician/groupie roleplay without them, either. Wand vibrators bear a striking resemblance to microphones and will make you sing a whole other type of tune when you’re done crooning into them, while percussion drumsticks are surprisingly inexpensive and make for a perfect themed spanking implement so you can literally smack that ass like a drum.
Pet Play
There’s nothing more primal and animalistic than tapping into the mindset of an actual animal. The idea of being subhuman is particularly enticing for submissives, while doms will find taming and controlling their wild beast the ultimate exercise in power.
Costumes
For pets and animals:
Your wardrobe likely won’t include actual clothing items (unless you’re roleplaying one of those hairless cats that need sweaters in the winter; hey, you do you). Regardless, costumes can play a large role in the world of pet play. Accessories that mimic animalistic features will help take you out of your human element and can provide extra stimulation, too. Animal ears are an easy transformation tool that makes a significant impact aesthetically and can be as simple as a fuzzy-eared headband or as intense as a full mask. Tails are another go-to for the animal kingdom; if you’re into butt stuff, I highly recommend using a butt plug with an attached tail. Butt plug tails provide a surprising amount of realism as the tail becomes part of your body and moves with you naturally, and the added fullness is a huge plus.
For masters and trainers:
Wardrobe for masters can be anything you’d like (or nothing at all) without sacrificing realism since there’s no uniform involved with being a pet owner. There are still opportunities to get creative, though- you just have to look for them. For instance, pony trainers could don equestrian apparel like skin tight pants that highlight the goods, a helmet that proves you're ready for a rough ride, and intimidating boots perfect for kicking and stomping (if that’s your thing, I mean!)
Behavior & Communication
For pets and animals:
Animals don’t speak (at least not in a way we can understand), so you’ll want to do away with your gift of gab during a scene in favor of noises. Whines, growls, and whatever signature noise your chosen animal makes will be your new vocabulary. You don’t have to rely solely on meows and whinnies, though. Animals are constantly using body language to convey emotion. Show affection for your master by nuzzling them or wagging your tail. Want their attention? Try pawing them! And it should go without saying that you’ll remain on all fours.
For masters and trainers:
You’ll want to take on an authoritative demeanor when handling your wild thing; give commands to test a pet’s obedience and punish or reward them appropriately. Speak to the sub like you would an animal and reference their species to further cement their subhuman status with phrases like “who’s a good girl/boy?” or “bad dog!” Incentivize good behavior with treats, which could be more literal, like a cookie, or figurative like a reference to orgasms or eating your ejaculate.
Tools & Props
BDSM toys go hand-in-hand (or paw-in-hand) with pet play, as many popular tools borrow their design and purpose from ones commonly used to handle real animals. For domesticated pets, a leash and collar are a must, while a riding crop is the perfect sexcessory for training barnyard animals. Though you can purchase some of these items from your local pet store (just don’t tell them what it’s for), you’re better off buying from sex retailers as their products will be more comfortable for human use.
Scientist & Alien
Beam me up, Sexy- it’s time to explore what pleasures lie beyond planet Earth with a XXX alien encounter that will drive scientists mad. When you Sci-Find out what erotic life forces are responsible for the most recent Unidentifiable Fucking Object sighting, you’re sure to discover out-of-this-world orgasms along the way.
Costumes
For scientists:
Any scientist worth their salt wears their lab coat with pride on the daily, but if yours is at the dry cleaner's, then any long white jacket will suffice. Safeguard yourself from dangerous chemicals (and species!) with a pair of black rubber gloves that allow you to touch your alien subject freely. You can heighten the sensory play aspect of gloves by choosing an erotically textured version for even freakier orifice exploration.
For aliens:
Create an otherworldly aesthetic with a shiny metallic bodysuit that shows off your asstronomical assets, or don some galaxy-print underwear to pay homage to your home planet. If you really want to sell the space schtick, makeup and SFX body accessories will make a world of difference. You don’t even need makeup artistry skills to achieve the desired effect; simply slap on a funky-hued lipstick (in colors like blue, green, or purple) and place a few body-safe gem stickers on your face.
Behavior & Communication
For scientists: Researchers will want to take an inquisitive, almost medical approach to interacting with extra sexual extraterrestrials. Your job is to study this strange creature’s reproductive organs and see how they react to touch and stimulation. Sure, you’re fucking, but you’re fucking in the name of science!
For aliens: As the subject of a study, the role of an alien is more reactive than active, but there’s still plenty of room to play around with your character in terms of aggression levels. Do you cum in peace? If so, lay back and let your sexy scientist experiment with your body. If your earthly visit is for the purpose of world domination, however, you can turn the tables and do some probing of your own.
Tools & Props
Research instruments are a must for scientists to test out their subject’s sensitivity to touch; scientists will find sensory tools like spiked pinwheels useful in their erotic examination, and a restraint system may come in handy for subduing uncooperative aliens. Space creatures, on the other hand, can mimic E.T.-esque powers with electroshock toys.
It isn’t easy to suspend your disbelief as an adult, so you should pay attention to any aspect of a roleplay where you can interject realism. Thorough preparation can also help first-time or awkward roleplayers feel more familiar with their role, so they don’t get flustered when it’s time to perform. The more legwork you do beforehand, the smoother a scene will go, making your fantasies better realized and fulfilled.
