Domming—when done well—requires a constant stream of creativity to keep your sub on their toes, and after you’ve been in the scene for a while, it can start to feel like you’ve done it all. No need to get disheartened, though; all it takes is a few new toys and ideas to get you back to the Top of your game.
If you find yourself lacking inspiration, make use of these five fresh scene ideas to reinvigorate your hardcore femdom sex life and get out of your BDSM funk.
Ruff Love
Good boys should always be rewarded with a treat after they’ve been walked and made to perform a few special (oral) tricks, and what better treat is there than a prostate O? Keeping his puppy play gear on, have your sub rest atop the Fleshlight On A Mission mount with his cock embedded in its snug Fleshlight-fitted toy pocket. Instruct him to use slow and shallow strokes as he pumps away and use a bulbous P-Spot massager to tease around his anus as he does so. When your puppy slut inevitably tries to buck back against the prostate massager, pull away and tell him he can’t have his treat until he barks consistently and convincingly.
Once you feel your pup has debased himself to the best of his ability, you can finally grant him the prostate pleasure he’s been begging for. For added stimulation, feel free to lightly tug at your sub’s leash now and then for a gentle choking effect that will enhance both the power dynamics and your submissive’s eventual orgasm.
Go Fuck Yourself
Hardcore femdom sex is hard work, so why not have your sub lend a helping hand once in a while? To start, have your lover insert himself into the Fleshlight Top Dog as you watch from behind and instruct him not to move a muscle. Donning the strap-on of your choosing, enter his backdoor slowly so that he can feel every inch of the toy as it goes in. Then, have your boytoy start thrusting into the toy mount, essentially fucking himself on your strap-on in the process—forcing your partner to be an active participant in his own domination will add an extra element of humiliation that will leave him blushing for days. Feel free to up the ante by directing him to go harder and faster or slower and deeper depending on your whims, further cementing your complete control over him.
Waiting Game
Reward good behavior without relinquishing any control by restricting your fucktoy’s sight and movements before giving them a treat. Once your sub is fully subdued on the Black Label Esse, start your seduction by using featherlight touches (or a literal feather, if you please) to stroke their nipples, torso, and inner thighs. Deprived of their sight, each sensation will feel heightened, making your teasing that much more impactful. If you’re dealing with a painslut, be sure to adorn them with nipple clamps or nipple suckers before the session begins so he can get his masochistic fix.
Though your needy boy will likely be ready for release after the first touch, delaying that gratification will make it even sweeter, so try to prolong your teasing for a while before giving in to their pleas. Once your sub is at their wits’ end, be sure to praise them for begging so pretty and finally reward them with the gift of your skilled mouth. If your boy’s been extra good lately, you can use a vibrating stroker as you suck for an extra special treat!
Access Denied
Take your denial games and hardcore femdom sex to sick and twisted levels by pairing an unforgettable show with demeaning dirty talk as your sub watches with his dick in his hand (metaphorically speaking, of course). Start the scene by placing a cock lock or similar chastity device on your soft-membered sub if he isn't wearing one already. Then, with him seated and leaning against the Black Label Ramp for stability, cuff his hands to the Black Label Ramp and his feet to the Talea Spreader Bar so that he’s completely open and vulnerable. Finish off the setup by inserting a bejeweled butt plug into his anus so you can treat yourself to the visual of his adorably decorated little hole.
Now that your submissive is propped up on display and helpless, it’s time for the fucked up femdom fun to begin. First, place the Pulse a few feet away from your sub and insert your favorite vibe or dildo into the sex toy pocket. Then, mount the Pulse slowly, being sure to moan loudly as your toy enters you—this position is just as much about performance as it is about pleasure! Once your body is warmed up, thrust and grind away with wild abandon as you taunt your sub with filthy words—you can either describe just how delicious your toy’s sensations feel or mock him by telling him how he could never satisfy you as good as your solo ride is doing. Either way, your boy will be transported straight to subspace and you to sadistic heaven.
Show Pony
Is your fucktoy up to snuff? Only one way to find out! Tell your sub that you’re not sure he’s worthy of fucking you anymore and that he’ll need to be put to the test to prove his value. Have him show you exactly how he’d screw you—if provided the honor—using the Fleshlight Top Dog as a stand-in for your body as you watch from the sidelines and judge his performance. Give your sub a hearty spanking when you feel he’s not working hard enough, and berate him simultaneously to really drive home his degradation.
Whether you’re in the mood for punishment, funishment, or praise, these BDSM scenes are sure to liven up your F/m sex games and help inspire even further filth. Feel free to add a wearable vibrator when doing all-about-him plays so you can get yours, too, and as always, be sure to follow up with plenty of aftercare. Happy humping, feisty femdoms!
