Somewhere between discovering Santa is a totally made-up guy and being old enough to wrack up credit card debt the holiday sex takes on an entirely new meaning. For many of us, this time of year is magical. It’s full of cheer, joy, celebrations, and jubilation and lots of sex. But for some of us, it’s full of stress, angst, and an endless list of to-dos. That’s probably why one of the first things to suffer during the ‘season of giving’ is romantic relationships and sex drives.
Instead of letting the seasonal stress stop you from enjoying holiday sex, why not try out some of these scintillating suggestions? It’s a great way of keeping yourself happy, healthy and horny.
Rub it Out
We know what your thinking—the idea of having sex is getting in the way of your stress. One of the best ways to unwind is to work a sensual massage into your routine. Not only does massage cause instant relaxation, it can double as foreplay too. When massaging the erogenous zones, the worry about unwrapped gifts will become a thing of the past. Set the mood and lightly scent the air with a LELO Flickering Touch Candle. This candle doubles as a mood maker and massage oil. And for something really shocking, add a Jimmyjane Hello Touch X.
Create a Tradition
The holidays can be a time for not only reconnect with family, but with your partner too. The thrill of trying something new, like positions on the Wedge/Ramp Combo, will not only take your mind off the holiday stress. But gives you hours of fun devising new ways to use it. Don’t let the things set in after a heavy meal—steal your partner away and work off some of those calories with this new position tradition.
Bad is the New Good
Being a little naughty isn’t always a bad thing, especially if it’s going to promise some great sex over the holidays. Treat yourself to some Bijoux Indiscrets and wear them proudly beneath your less than flattering Christmas sweater. Wearing something sexy, makes you feel sexy. It’s that simple. Feeling sexy also improves your confidence and perhaps success in all areas of your life, especially the bedroom.
Quickies are just that—quick. When moments like listening to Uncle Joe’s surgery for the zillionth time have got you down, steal your lover away for a fast and furious session. However, before settling into your new holiday digs, be sure to conduct a reconnaissance mission for a quite little spot. You never know, the shed out back may create the perfect hideaway.
Share the Joy
Use a vibrating cock ring if you feel like you’re not going to be able to get there on your own during sex. The Lelo TOR packs a powerful punch and is made for both of your pleasure. Hey, sometimes we just need a little more stimulation during this time of year.
Nothing beats stress like a diversion. As the saying goes, couples that play together, stay together. Put away the Monopoly set and instead, pull out the seductive card game. These fun cards have 50 exciting sexual adventures that help to get you in the mood. Want some more fantasy? Whip out the travel size Sex Games book. This perfect travel companion is great for those time when sex games need to be taken on the road.
Now go out there. You can do this thing called the holidays. In reality, it’s really only a day (or two, possibly three). Once it’s over, you will be remarkably relieved. And the sex will be amazing. Perhaps way better than it was before the holidays, at least.