The Best BDSM Blogs BDSM Blogs in 2022

While finding kinky blogs to explore may be easy, finding the best BDSM blogs to add to your reading list is a whole different ball gag. Well, I have good news for all you masochists who don’t want their pain play to come in the form of a lengthy Google search (and sadists and the whole kinky crew): we’ve done all the work for you!

These five kink blogs are of excellent caliber and host a bevy of helpful content for BDSM enthusiasts and newcomers alike.

Kink Lovers Magazine

Though I only very recently discovered Kink Lovers Magazine, I’m already willing to accept their collar and a fitting punishment to atone for not knowing about this amazing kink blog sooner (ball’s in your court, KLM.) The fetishistic online magazine publishes the perfect variety of content such as creative play ideas, BDSM dating advice, and fetish-focused educational pieces—each article, regardless of the category, being well-written and entertaining. KLM’s deep dives into specific fetishes and kinks are particularly impressive; the kink bloggers expertly explain each fetish in an in-depth yet easily digestible manner. Varied not only in content but readership focus as well, kinksters of all identities will find Kink Lovers Magazine a worthy BDSM resource.

Suggested Kink Lovers Magazine Reads: CNC Kink: Consensual Non-Consent Explained

BDSM Training Academy

While the words “training academy” may invoke the image of strict and impersonal instruction for some (guilty!), the works of the BDSM Training Academy blog lie on the opposite spectrum. Those whose love of literary nonfiction is on par with their passion for D/s dynamics will delight in the many memoir-style writings authored by like-minded kinksters. The BDSM Training Academy is hardly all prose and no purpose, though. The kink blog features articles by various bloggers, some of whom insert personal details into their pieces, while others follow a more traditional “how-to” approach. Whether you desire more straightforward tips or prefer your BDSM advice to come with a side of storytelling, you’ll be sure to find the captivating kinky content you’re looking for at BDSM Training Academy.

Suggested BDSM Training Academy Read: Separating Punishment and Funishment

BDSM Cafe

Whether you’re interested in book and film reviews, in-depth articles, or erotic flash fiction, BDSM Cafe hosts a breadth of kinky reading material for fetishists to explore. When it comes to keeping scenes safe, sane, and consensual (a must!), BDSM Cafe offers all the details you’ll need to do so. The kinky blog’s BDSM safety coverage is wide-spanning, from niche yet impactful topics like returning to BDSM after receiving cervical cancer treatment to more universally applicable guides like discerning the difference between BDSM and abuse. Their kinky content doesn’t only cater to one audience, either: Dom(me)s, submissives, and switches can all enjoy fun fetish articles from BDSM Cafe that speak to their specific needs.

Suggested BDSM Cafe Read: Subspace -vs- Slavespace

Kinky World

Sitemaster (or should I say sitemistress?) Mistress Kay began Kinky World as a straightforward sex toy review site, but her kinky content offerings grew over the years to become so much more–namely, an invaluable resource for femdoms and their submissives. From highly specific BDSM advice like making your Easter celebration extra kinky to beginner-friendly basics, Kinky World is the perfect place to get tips for spicing up your D/s relationship year-round. While this kinky blog still publishes helpful toy reviews, Mistress Kay also now has a unique Sex Toy Advice section to help readers make the most of their adult toy collection and gain a better understanding of the many toy categories out there.

Suggested Kinky World Read: How to Give a Femdom Handjob

Submissive Guide

If you’ve ever found yourself wishing there was a Cosmopolitan for submissives, then you’ll see that Submissive Guide rubs your lamp juuust right. Submissive Guide provides relationship and dating advice like how to make cohabitation go smoothly, how to deal with jealousy, and healthy communication tips–all geared towards those in a D/s dynamic. This kinky take on traditional relationship advice is refreshing and much needed; D/s relationships are, after all, relationships, and the fundamental aspects that make all partnerships successful still apply.

Suggested Submissive Guide Read: Be More Specific About Pain - When a Tool is More Than Sting or Thud

Honorable (Extremely Biased) Mention: Liberator Unzipped!

I’d, of course, be remiss if I didn’t mention all the kinky content available right here on Liberator Unzipped! Though we don’t solely cater to the BDSM community, we have tons of kinktastic articles available for all different levels of bondage and S&M enthusiasts to enjoy.

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