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Ah, wintertime—the perfect season for huddling under layers of lumpy clothing and letting your inner-bear takeover. Although hibernating until Spring may seem like a good idea, it’s not exactly a recipe for romance. So, if cold, gray winter days and nights make you feel a bit dreary, you’ll want to follow our guide to winter sex. By all means, there’s really nothing like f*cking the winter blues away!

Here are a few creative winter sex tricks that can turn up the heat when the temperature drops. 

Get Connected

Winter provides endless opportunities for reconnecting with your partner. Instead of hiding from the falling snow, think like a really big kid. Bundle up and have an outdoor adventure. Activities like sledding, building a “dirty” snowman or making naked snow angels sure beats arguing over who has to shovel the driveway. Enjoying each other’s playful manner, laughing and holding onto each other will bring you closer. Engaging in some fun-loving winter sex activities, you’ll find that it’s not only the love that increases but the libido too. 

Melting Point

Staying indoors during the colder months means more time for enjoying tasty pleasures. Rather than sticking to your usual cold-weather microwave recipes, try creating some hot meals together. Pick a night every week and cook together using aphrodisiacs—ingredients that inspire desire and heighten sex drive—such as figs, almonds, oysters, truffle oil, honey, pomegranate, and ginger. You can also ignite the senses by having a blindfold taste test using fruits and sweets. And for dessert, top things off with a hot winter sex session.

Decorative Pleasures

Instead of just hiding under the covers, give your bedroom a mini-makeover. You can create an environment that feels romantic and sensual. Adding just one element, like the Fascinator Faux Fur Throw, is the best way to turn your room into an oasis of seduction. Not only will this throw make your bed look more inviting but it will keep you wrapped in luxurious warmth. When a bedroom looks inviting, you’ll find that you both want to spend more time in there—together.

Winter Sex

Skin on Skin Contact

Take the chill out of the air and use candles for casting a soft and warm glow. Set the mood and light a few Kama Sutra Ignite Candles. These multipurpose candles not only emit a sensual aroma but melt into a pool of luxuriously warm massage oil. You can make massages even steamier with the Center Stage Massage Platform.

Winter SexLook Hot Naked

Toss that cozy robe aside this winter and dare to wear nothing more than a pair of Barcelona fur-lined leather cuffs. These gorgeous hand-crafted BDSM cuffs can go a long way toward heating things up. The sexier you feel, the more likely it is that you’ll be in the mood. Plus, we’re willing to bet your partner will appreciate the minor wardrobe change too. Exploring some role-playing scenarios shows your partner that you are willing to fire up your passion.

 Some Like It Hot

As the season’s change, so should your sex toys. The L’Amourose Denia Rouge Rabbit Vibe is the perfect toy for raising a lot more than your body temperature. Equipped with a Thermal Heated Regulator, this powerful vibe offers plenty of options for spice things up between the sheets. It’s sleek design and supple silicone body makes blended orgasms on of the most creative winter sex trick ever!

Steam Things Up

The bath is a great place for a little winter escape with hot water to warm you up. There are plenty of fun, sexy things to do while you’re in the tub. For example, you could play with waterproof toys like the Womanizer Plus. While submerged underwater, the Womanizer creates amazing suction for incredible clitoral sensations. This underwater feature will have you both spending a lot more time in soaking it up when the temperature drops.

Slip and Slide

Let the nip in the air give you an excuse for experimenting with something new. Defrost those goosebumps and keep yourself slippery with warming lube. On contact with the skin, lubricants like Sensuva Warming Lubricant creates a warming sensation that heightens sensitivity, turning your touch into a much more stimulating experience. You could find that a pleasantly intense orgasm awaits as this type of lube has a unique and tingly feeling.

Reignite the Flame

For some couples, keeping the flame alive during the coldest season of the year can be challenging. You can add the spark back into your sex life by booking a mini-retreat and getting away for the weekend. Whether it’s renting a small cabin in the woods or booking a local hotel room or taking a quick flight to Miami, sometimes a new environment can help in recharging the battery. Just make sure there’s a hot tub in close proximity!


One of the best ways to stay warm is being active. So, instead of resorting to the low energy sex positions, heat things up with sexual positions that work out your muscles. Kneeling positions, like Take a Bow, are good for keeping both of you active. The Wedge/Ramp Combo combined with a Liberator Lift or two will allow you both tightly wound together. Once entry is made, she can then move back and forth, and up and down, while the hips move in tandem.