A Guide to Prostate Stimulation
Prostate Stimulation (the P-spot) gets brought up a lot! And for a lot of gentlemen out there, it can be a bit confusing and somewhat intimidating. So, this is the perfect opportunity for shedding light on an unnecessarily taboo subject—anal pleasure for guys. But before we begin, allow us to clear up the biggest misconception regarding prostate stimulation.
- Pleasure from anal stimulation does not make you any less masculine. What makes this act “gay” is enjoying it with another man—it’s as simple as that!
- Putting things in your ass will not make you gay either. Sometimes the only way to reap the benefits on prostate stimulation is through the anus.
- Prostate Stimulation a.k.a anal play is not for everyone. We all know some partners are hesitant about getting acquainted with the p-spot. That’s largely due to not understanding how this stimulation works.
- The prostate lives under the bladder and is about the size of a walnut. It can be found about a finger’s length along the rectum. When massaged, the millions of nerve endings there create an amazing sensation that can build from an inner warmth to a mind-blowing orgasm. (See diagram below).
Okay—Now That’s Out of the Way
Let’s Get Down to Prostate Stimulation
The prostate orgasm actually becomes a “Super-O” according to our friend at Aneros. It is different for each person. However, the consensus is actually a series of smaller, full-body orgasms building into a single or series of large full-body orgasms. Some say a prostate orgasm is the most intense and beautiful pleasure they have ever experienced.
How to Get There
We are not going to lie. The most direct route to P-spot heaven is through the rectum. There are others ways of enjoying without sticking anything in your bum. Rubbing the perineum, (your taint) the area between the balls and ass, using an upward motion not only stimulates the base of the penis but can also hit the prostate gland as well. Massaging can be a better alternative if you or your partner is a little shy about going the anal route.
You Don’t Need to Use Your Fingers
If you want to try for prostate stimulation without using your fingers there are toys specifically designed just for that. We highly recommend using prostate massagers from Aneros. They are hands-free, and easily inserted! Their design puts delicious pressure on the P-spot and offers a slight running movement during while having sex or during masturbation.
Plus, your partner does not need to do something they are uncomfortable doing. If you are looking for something with a little more robust, I like the TOMO by Giddi. It has the same benefits of using a finger but with way more horsepower!
Natural Prostate Stimulation
The most natural form of prostate stimulation is with the finger. A little forethought can make this very easy for your partner. You may want to consider doing an enema beforehand or even offer for them the Finger Fuck Glove from Oxballs. Please use plenty of water-based lube! But be wary of anal relaxing sprays. They are fine if you are experienced, but they can numb your bum if you are new to the game and result in injury.
Prostate Stimulation Sex Positions
Positioning plays an important role in prostate stimulation. Liberator offers options to help with p-spot accessibility. The Wedge, Hipster, or Whirl can all be placed under your hips and lift you up for increased visibility. Plus, you’ll be at the perfect angle right for keeping your body relaxed and ready for pleasure. Another nice feature of the Liberator sex wedges is you can hang your balls over the side, keeping them accessible for oral sex. PRO TIP: Lay flat makes access trickier, and your junk will be hidden under your body. So, let your goodies hand loose!