The idea of dabbling in roleplay, though exciting, can also be rather intimidating for first-timers. Choosing a scenario—whether it be a previously existing fantasy or an idea picked from an article—is easy, but what do you do when the spotlight’s on you, and the director screams “ACTION!”?
For many adults, playing pretend simply doesn’t come naturally. Luckily, the element that makes a roleplay sesh particularly mindblowing is the very same one that will help you better carry out your erotic goal: attention to detail! Specifics like costumes, props, and a predetermined demeanor will help you get and stay in character while also lending more realism to your scene.
If you’re at a loss for where to start, try out one of these detailed roleplay scenes, and you’ll be putting on Blockbuster-worthy bedroom performances in no time.
Professor & Student
Professors shape the minds of young adults and sometimes their fantasies, too. Crushing on your teacher is so common that it’s frequently referenced in music and pop culture: Van Halen’s “Hot for Teacher,” Elton John’s “Teacher I Need You,” and the list goes on. From detention to tutoring to using unconventional methods (read: mouthfucking) to get a better grade, the professor/student dynamic is ripe with opportunity.
Costumes
For students:
There are a couple of ways you could go here: a sexed-up schoolgirl/boy outfit (think Britney Spears in her iconic “...Baby One More Time” music video, which is something I think about a lot) or a dumb jock/cheerleader uniform (think every porno ever). For the prep school look, tartan print is your best friend for bottoms, and you’ll want them to be short, so you can show off your knee-high socks (a must-have, IMO) while a white button-down tied to expose your midriff or suspenders worn sans shirt are good options for a top (or lack thereof). If you want to go the school athlete look, use a standard sexy cheerleader costume or make the most of an old sports jersey by wearing it alone. Regardless of the type of student you want to play, pigtails are a classic for long-haired femmes and can double as “handlebars,'' too.
For teachers:
Time to repurpose your work wardrobe! You likely have much of what you need to play professor right in your closet, so all you have to do is make some adjustments to take office staples from “professional” to “professional slut.” Put on your tightest slacks or pencil skirt and pair them with either a button-down with a generous amount of undone buttons or a tweed blazer (and I mean ONLY a tweed blazer). Take out your contacts and swap ‘em for eyeglasses if you have them, or use lensless ones to achieve the same effect. Top things off with a pencil tucked behind the ear or placed in a bun or ponytail, and voila! School is now in session.
Behavior & Communication
For students:
Are you more “teacher’s pet” or “troublemaking slacker”? No two students are the same, so it’s up to you to do some character development and then stick to your schtick. Nerdy overachievers might want to raise their hand before speaking and offer sexual favors in the name of teacher’s appreciation, while troublemakers can try to bribe their way to a better grade.
For teachers:
In one-on-one learning, a good professor will tailor their teaching style to a student’s needs, and so should you! Instruct eager-to-please star students and help them master anatomy with hands-on lessons for oral or other pieces of carnal knowledge. Whip unruly students into shape literally or come up with innovative punishments like writing, “I’m a no-good, filthy slut” in cursive over and over until the concept sets in.
Tools & Props
Did someone say “corporal punishment?” Oh, that’s right, I did. Get creative with everyday household items that can be found in a classroom for a themed BDSM sesh. For instance, that Granny Smith apple in your fruit bowl would make a great gag to bite down on during impact play. Go the extra mile and visit a school supply store for a pointer you can use to teach “lessons” and then teach lessons by using it to spank and swat. If you and your partner have decided to go the school athlete route, pompoms not only bring the look to life but can be used for sensation play.
Cop & Criminal
Playing cops and robbers is a surefire way to get your aggression out. Plus, the “good guy” vs. “bad guy” dynamic lets couples play around with power and enjoy a scenario where the winner isn’t clear from the get-go, adding a level of spontaneity to your sex session. So what happens when a criminal tries to burgle the wrong house? That’s up to you to decide.
(SIDE NOTE: this is the perfect scenario for switches!)
Costumes
For cops:
Lingerie Halloween costume versions aside, police uniforms are hardly arousing. In fact, much of a cop costume’s sex appeal lies within accessories and not the clothing items themselves. You’re better off wearing blue or black booty shorts or briefs and accessorizing than grabbing nice dark-colored slacks from your closet; plus, you’ll save yourself a trip to the drycleaners post playtime. A metal badge that signifies power, aviator sunglasses that shield emotive eyes, and a dark hat that casts menacing shadows on the face; those are the real turn-ons.
For burglars:
Stealth is the name of the game if you need to get away with a crime, so dress for agility and anonymity. A black lycra bodysuit is on-brand but be warned that the clingy material might inspire your partner to commit a crime of passion. While ski masks are more realistic for hiding your identity, a slender eye mask will get the theme across in a much more aesthetically appealing way.
Behavior & Communication
Much of the fun of this roleplay scenario stems from a power struggle between the two parties. Cops and criminals are both generally dominant roles, making their dynamic extra sexually charged. Each partner should try to shift the control in their favor, using the naughty tools of their trades to do so. If the cop should come out on top (both literally and figuratively), I suggest they implement a thorough strip search to ensure stolen jewels aren’t hidden somewhere out of sight.
Tools & Props
Handcuffs are a must for both roles; burglars will want to subdue their victims so that they can steal with ease, and officers will need cuffs on hand to show criminals the long arm of the law if you know what I mean. The phallic shape of a nightstick already hints at sex (if you have a dirty enough mind) and lends itself to the deed, too: try using the baton for insertion or spanking, or even switch between the two! Since police batons are hard to come by, you might want to opt for a smooth black vibe or dildo instead—not only are they easier to get, but they’ll produce a lot more pleasure, too. Looking for a little more force in your defense weapons? An e-stim sex toy like an electroshock wand is a good stand-in for tasers!
Stripper & Bachelor/ette
There’s a reason Magic Mike made over a million in box office sales, and it’s not due to a riveting plot. Whether you’re a sucker for Channing Tatum’s abs or not, there’s no denying that watching someone gyrate while wearing next to nothing is a turn-on. And being the gyrate-er can be just as thrilling, both from the standpoint of desirability and exhibitionism. After all, who wouldn’t be proud to say they made T-Pain fall in love?
Costumes
For strippers:
A barely-there g-string is a given for your stripper ensemble, but you’ll want to add at least one other piece of revealing clothing on top of that. After all, strippers don’t come out on stage naked—they strip! Pick out one or two clothing items that show off the skivvies underneath, like a vest or mini skirt. For those who wear makeup, you’ll want to layer it on heavy or opt for some body glitter (or both!). While sky-high heels may be a staple for real erotic dancers, you should probably skip ‘em unless you’ve mastered the art of dancing in them.
For the bride or groom to be:
It’s your last hoorah as a “single” person, so dress accordingly! Accessories will be your best asset here. Grab a cheap bachelor/ette sash from your local seedy sex shop (or Amazon, whatevs) and a plastic tiara if you wanna get extra flashy. And bam, you’re done!
Behavior & Communication
Strippers dance, and customers get danced upon; that much is obvious, but where the real excitement lies is your dynamic. How you two should interact will depend upon which partner wants to be the more dominant one in the scene. Is the stripper the aggressor? If so, they’ll want to do everything in their power to get the customer to the VIP room so they can make more money. Try whispering promises of how no one will find out what goes down in the VIP area and promises of how you’ll go down, too. Or maybe the client is the one trying to break the club’s strict no-touching policy. In that case, you may want to print out a few extra sheets of fake money so they can flaunt it and make a very lucrative, albeit indecent, proposal.
Tools & Props
You’re gonna need cold, hard cash for this roleplay to work. Cold, hard, and FAKE cash that is. Real moolah has been passed around countless times, so don’t put it near your naughty bits. Download some printable play money (Google is your best friend here) instead, cut out the pieces, and then you’re good to go! Though not technically a prop or tool, music is also key in making this scenario feel realistic. Create a playlist of songs that make you feel sexy and are easy to dance to.
Though having the right costumes, props, and attitude will go a long way in your roleplay, your best-laid plans may still go awry—and that’s totally okay! Sex is supposed to be fun, not pressure-filled, so just roll with it if you have a laughing fit and move on! The more experienced you get with roleplay, the less awkward it will be, but until then, there’s nothing wrong with faking it till you make it—that’s kinda the whole point of roleplay, anyhow.
Read our previous detailed roleplay ideas blog for even more play scenarios!
