Small but Mighty: How Sex with a Micropenis Can Be Pleasurable
Micropenis Sex Hacks
We've all heard the stories about the guy who has a friend whose sister who once dated a guy with a teeny-tiny weenie. These conversations usually result in a few jokes. But for micropenis owners, jokes and personal anecdotes are no laughing matter. The social stigma associated with having a micropenis can be agonizing, especially since our society measures self-worth via the parts of our body.
Just the Tip
So, does having a larger-sized penis matter? Well, when considering most women cannot come from just penetration alone, size is not always relevant – except for size-queens who love feeling full, perhaps. But for an average woman like me, pleasure is derived by using the hands, fingers, tongue, or simply the tip of the penis. My most memorable and exciting sexual experiences have been with guys with smaller-sized penises, including a couple of micropenises.
"Sex should be more than penetration, and satisfaction can come so many ways. Between oral, hands, grinding, penetration, and toys, a good time can be had by all involved, regardless of genital configuration."
– Julian Wolf, Sex Educator
Does Bigger mean Better?
Most people are conditioned to think that bigger is always better. Big house, big car, big tits, big cock. Compounding the problem is that we glorify uber-hung male porn stars. And with all the societal pressures of perfection, it's hard not to take your penis size personally. But really, does bigger mean better? No, having a bigger cock does not always equate to being better. There are some guys I know who are terrible lovers, and maybe it's because they rely on their big member to do the deed.
Not Your Average Joe
A micropenis is approximately 2.5 times smaller than the "average" penis. While the average penis measures in at 5 inches, micropenises are 2.5 inches or less. One out of every 200 males have micropenises. The smaller size is sometimes a result of hormonal imbalances while in utero, while other cases of micropenises have no discernible medical explanation.
You have sex with the person, not the penis.
Ask any woman, and she will likely say it's not the dick that matters but the owner. Believe me, they wouldn't be in bed with you if they didn't think you were sexy and desirable. If they are into you, they are into you. It might be your sense of humor, or how you listen to her, or the way you smell. Despite everything that macho cars and Sex and the City episodes tell us, penis size isn't a deal breaker — it's the lack of confidence that breaks attraction.
There are plenty of ways to make a woman satisfied with a micropenis.
Unlike in porn movies, your penis is not a magic wand that makes women instantly orgasm after a few seconds of insertion. In fact, many men end up neglecting their oral skills because they leap into P-in-V sex. This is where you can shine like the rock star you are! And believe me, they will thank you for the effort. Nothing makes someone feel more special than a lover taking their time. This type of enthusiasm extends to vaginal penetration and the G-spot, which is located just 2-3 inches inside the vagina.
So, whatever you're packing, make the most of it. Try out as many different positions as possible, and be sure to include a Wedge/Ramp Combo. It'll help you go the distance both by lasting longer and going deeper. With their pelvis tilted upward, they will experience increased sensations. Plus, you'll benefit from having greater access to the G-spot.
For even more sensation, try adding a sex toy into the mix. Choose something that won't get in the way, like a clitoral wunderkind, the Womanizer. Don't let the use of a sex toy make you feel like any less of a man. In fact, sex toys are your best friend — theirs too! It may take some getting used to at first. But once you see their reactions, you can go on pleasing them to the fullest. If your partner is into penetration, you can also try a dildo with a harness. This gives them the sensations of penetrative sex and helps you get into the motions. Strapping one on gives you the feeling of powerful thrusting and intimate connection.
Big, Small, We Love Them All
Here's the great news. Penises come in all shapes and sizes. Some are small while others are big. Then there are those who are thin and those who are fat. What really matters to most women is how you love her. So, no matter where you fall on the penis spectrum, the most important thing is "doing it" with gusto. That's the secret to keeping lovers coming back for more.
