Choosing your sex toy isn’t like buying a kitchen gadget or upgrading your phone—but choosing the perfect toy can be just as fun, explorative, and a unique experience tailored to your tastes. Whether you’re flying solo or exploring new sensations with a partner, picking the perfect toy should be an exciting adventure, not an overwhelming decision.
So, let’s break it down and turn this into an enlightening, empowering, and downright thrilling experience—one that leads you straight to the ultimate pleasure.
Where Do You Want to Feel Pleasure?
We want nothing more than for you to find mind-blowing satisfaction with your new toy. But if you’re unsure where to start, take a moment. Close your eyes…. think about what turns you on the most. Do you crave:
- Clitoral stimulation – intense, pinpoint pleasure with pulsations and suction.
- G-spot exploration – deep, rumbly vibrations that hit just the right spot.
- Anal stimulation – whether beginner-friendly or advanced, there’s something for everyone.
- A realistic experience – something that mimics the real thing and heightens the sensations.
Pleasure has endless possibilities, but to make your search easier, here are some toys we highly recommend to get you started.
For Clitoral Stimulation
Depending on what you're in the mood for, this pleasure toy is destined to take you to an earth-shattering orgasm. This stimulator is best described as an "all-encompassing" sex toy, as it gives oral-like stimulation through flicking sensations, as well as teasing the clitoris in a way that mirrors a real-life oral fantasy good enough to send chills down your spine.
In addition, this toy has solid 9-licking patterns with three suction levels to give you an out-of-body experience. While this product is perfect for solo playtime, it is even better with a partner. Partner play with clitoral stimulators is highly recommended as they are known to broaden the intimacy between partners and open the door to new sexual pleasure points.
Why We Know You'll Love It: If oral stimulation is your thing, this toy will take you there. The Scioness combines flicking tongue-like sensations with teasing suction, mirroring a real-life oral experience that will send chills down your spine.
Toy Highlights:
✔️ 9 licking patterns + 3 suction levels for customizable pleasure
✔️ Perfect for solo play, but even better with a partner
✔️ Compact, discreet, and travel-friendly
Try this: Let your partner take control of the settings, teasing you until you can’t take it anymore.
For G-Spot Pleasure
While finding the G-spot can feel like a treasure hunt, we want to make sure you're equipped with the right toy to make the hunt for that special spot a magical, mystical journey for you or your partner.
The G-spot is a very special spot. Special spots need extra care, love, and attention. We love the Talis Wave by Zalo because it provides next-level care to the G-spot, and the best part is that it can be bent at a perfect 90-degree angle, allowing solo play to feel comfortable, natural, and stimulating. If you are exploring with the G-spot with a partner, the Talis is still a fun toy to play with because it opens up a world of possibilities. Whether they take control, guide it to your most sensitive spots, or integrate it into foreplay, the gentle waves and vibrations from this pleasure gadget allow an intentional, sensual, and electric experience for partners at playtime.
Toy Highlights:
✔️ Soft, body-safe silicone for a comfortable experience
✔️ Designed for both beginners and experienced users
✔️ Aesthetic design with luxurious gold detailing
Try this: Add a little LeLo lube to enhance the sensations and make every movement effortless.
For Anal Exploration
If you're new to anal exploration, easing into it slow and steady is the best pace for beginners. If you’re an expert looking for something new to excite you or your partner, the Rimming Plug by B-Vibe is one of our favorites for both beginners and experts. The Rimming Plug is perfectly crafted with rotating beads that mirror real rimming sensations while also delivering the vibration where it matters the most. This playtime gadget is the perfect size to assist with dilating before engaging with anal pleasure, easing you or your partner into the experience with comfort and ease.
Toy Highlights:
✔️ Wireless remote control for hands-free play
✔️ Beginner-friendly, yet strong enough for those who love intensity
✔️ Unisex pleasure—for him, for her, or for both
Try this: Pair this with another toy (like a clitoral stimulator) for dual pleasure that will leave you breathless.
For a Couple's Experience
Sex toys are not just for solo play, which is a common misconception. Sex toys are an incredible way for lovers to create a new and exciting sensual experience together. Introducing toys can be nerve-wracking, so picking one based on you and your partner’s wants and needs is essential. For a starter kit for couples, we love the We-Vibe Wand 2. This cordless massager is sure to enhance your partner's experience with 10 intensity levels and 10 vibration patterns. This wand is designed with a soft head and pronounced edges for both broad and focused stimulation. It's also waterproof, lightweight, and quiet, making it easy to hold and use discreetly.
Toy Highlights:
✔️ Smart Silence: Vibrations only activate upon skin contact for discreet pleasure
✔️ App-Controlled: Your partner can control the experience from anywhere in the world
✔️ Versatile Design: Perfect for foreplay, teasing, and even during sex
✔️ 10 Intensity Levels & 10 Vibration Patterns: A fully customizable experience
Try this: Let your partner take control via the We-Vibe app, teasing you with different vibration patterns or syncing the sensations to music for an immersive pleasure experience. Want to turn up the heat? Use the wand’s broad head for full-body massage before focusing on more intimate areas for an electrifying finish.
Adding a new toy to your bedroom is just the beginning, this is truly about exploring your body and what makes you feel good, owning your desires, and potentially bringing your lover along with you for the ride. Are you ready to take your pleasure to the next level?
