One Inch at a Time: How to Give a Deep Throat Blowjob

How to give a Deep Throat Blowjob

For most guys, the holy grail of oral sex is the deep throat blowjob. The men we've spoken with describe deep throating as the ultimate sexual experience. That's all fine for the receiver, but what about the giver. While sucking an erect penis may look easy on porn films, the reality is not many people have the capacity for gulping down an entire penis without setting off a series of gag reflexes.

Take It One Inch at a Time

The average mouth depth is about 3 to 4-inches. So, it's no wonder why most people have a hard time handling an average sized penis of 5 to 6-inches. However, not all hope is lost. Performing a deep throat blowjob can be learned and mastered. It just takes time and practice. Here are the steps On How to Give a Deep Throat Blowjob like a Pro!

Practice Make Pleasure

Dildos are great toys for practicing your deep throat blowjob. It makes your first try with the real thing feel less awkward. Start off using a dildo that is slim and flexible and has a wide base. You don't want to accidentally choke on a dildo. Focus on finding your gag reflex. (You know, that super-sensitive spot where you start gagging.) Once you reach the point of gagging, stop and withdraw the dildo. Relax for a minute, take a deep inhale and try again. Using the same dildo, let it travel across the roof of your mouth while keeping the tongue pulled downward. The point of this exercise is learning what triggers your reflexes and looking for a path that doesn’t make you want to gag in the first place. Plus you will build up your tolerance so that your throat is not as sensitive anymore. It will take time, but it will eventually lead to taking him inch-by-inch.

Mind Over Matter

There's a popular dentist trick that helps turn off your gag reflex. Simply tuck your thumb into a clenched fist and squeeze. This technique helps focus the brain and lets you perform the best deep throat blowjob ever. Anything that keeps your mind off your throat helps. Keep focused on your partner, your body, and your intimacy. Staying relaxed is key!

Perfect Moves

There is an easier way on how to give a deep throat blowjob. The standard position is the man lays down as you hover over the top of him. Unfortunately, this position can block the throat by curving your neck downward. To make it easier on you and give you more control --- lie on your back with your head over the edge of the Ramp. You should be looking upside down. Move your hands to his waist and hold on to him. This gives you more control of his thrusting. Pull his pelvis close and suck him into your mouth. On the outstroke, extend your arms and push him away in increments. Just before he leaves your mouth, place your tongue on the tip of his penis and swirl.

Give it a Whirl

Most men won't turn down a blow job because someone can't deep-throat. And if you're not having fun, more than likely he's not having much either.  So, don't push yourself beyond what you are comfortable with. Be patient, even if you end up gagging a bit. Pull back, suck the head and say, "Honey, you are just so big!" Some guys also enjoy the gag, since it shows how much you are into him having a good time. Most guys will be thrilled watching you take the whole thing in your mouth—nothing fancy needed. If that is all you can handle, he will be more than satisfied. But, if you get there and want to spice it up, extend your tongue up and down his shaft. Or, gently move your head back and forth to circle your mouth around his dick. You can suck on it, but it will probably wear your jaw out faster, so be careful of overextending yourself.

Hand Jive

Don't think you need to have his penis all the way down your throat the whole time. Going deep is a great way to add flavor to your blowjob, but too much of a good thing can make it not as titillating for him. When you need a break, take one and pull back to relax. Even switch it up and use your lubed hands for a while. Press both hands together over his penis and slowly move your hands up and down his shaft and over his head. This will keep him hard and entertained until you're ready to dive in again. Not so sadly for your partner, this skill needs to be done frequently in order to be maintained. So use it or lose it!