5 Positions to Try on Your Chaise: For Him

Sex should feel indulgent. Intimate. Deeply satisfying—for both of you. But let’s be honest: when we talk about giving pleasure, it’s often coded as one-sided, like it’s a chore or a performance. It shouldn’t be. Giving can be powerfully erotic—especially when it’s intentional, playful, and rooted in connection.

That’s where a sex chaise comes in. This isn't just a positioning aid—it’s a throne. Sculpted inclines that elevate, support, and transform your angle of access, making every stroke, lick, and grind feel more focused, more intense, more unforgettable.

Whether you're celebrating your boyfriend, your husband, or your partner this Father's Day—we've got you. Because pleasure should be mutual, amplified, and absolutely worth the climb.

Vibe: Relaxed, pampered, and fully in control.

Let him lie back and take the crown. In this position, your partner lays back against the angled slope of the chaise, knees slightly bent and hips gentle elevated. You kneel or straddle between, or over, their legs, setting the stage for focused oral, slow hand play, or delicious toy teasing.

Why It Works: The curves of the chaise does the heavy lifting, tilting the pelvis into prime position and keeping the body relaxed and receptive. No more craning necks or awkward angles, just uninterrupted access and effortless control for both of you. He gets to sink in and savor. You get to worship without strain.

Perfect Pairing: Add a Blindfold to heighten anticipation and keep the focus on every slow, deliberate touch. Because sometimes giving feels better than receiving, especially when he's got a throne made for pleasure.

Vibe: Worship meets surrender.

There's something exquisitely intimate about this kind of offering: open, vulnerable, and ready to receive. In this position, your partner kneels over the backrest of the chaise, hips lifted, presenting himself for full attention. Whether you're using your hands, your mouth, or a favorite toy, the access is undeniable and the power dynamic is all yours to play with.

Why It Works: The elevation and tilt of the chaise's curve creates an ideal angle for perineal pressure and prostate stimulation, allowing you to explore with intention and precision. It's equally suited for slow teasing or more commanding, rhythmic play. Whether you're tapping into power dynamics or simply amplifying connection, this position delivers deep, responsive pleasure.

Perfect Pairing: Warm things up with a massage candle, letting the hot wax glide across the back, thighs, or cheeks before the real fun begins.

Vibe: Cowgirl, but make it royal.

Take the reins and ride like royalty. In this position, your partner sits against the chaise's backrest, hips grounded and ready. You straddle him, facing forward for eye contact and intimacy, or reverse for a more commanding twist. Grind, rock, take your time.

Why It Works: This throne isn't just about elevation, it's about power. A chaise supports your partner's spine and posture, keeping him comfortable while you control the rhythm, depth, and intensity. There's no strain on your abs or lower back, just fluid motion and full-bodied connection. Perfect for sensual movement or locking eyes and losing yourselves in the moment.

Perfect Pairing: Introduce Velcro Cuffs on the wrists or thighs to add a restrained edge, inviting submission without sacrificing comfort.

Vibe: Edge play, orgasm control, power.

He's not just lying back, he's surrendering to the slow burn. In this position, your partner reclines at a lower angle, body relaxed but exposed. You can kneel between his legs, saddle up beside him, or lay over him and take control - using your hands, mouth, or his favorite toy to bring him right to the brink... and then pull back. Again and again.

Why It Works: The angle of the chaise keeps him sensitive - with hips slightly lifted and muscles relaxed, every touch lands deeper. And with you in command of the pace, the tease becomes its own kind of pleasure. Draw out the tension and build the pressure.

Perfect Pairing: Slip on a vibrating c-ring to amplify sensation while keeping him at your mercy, or add a stroker for textured intensity without full release. Whether you're playing it soft or strict, the goal is the same: heightened arousal, delayed gratification, and a climax that feels like surrender.

Vibe: Deep trust, full access, divine intensity.

This isn’t just sex—it’s sacred. In this position, your partner lies back, hips lifted like an offering, body open and ready. Whether you're using a strap-on, a toy, or your hands, this is about deep internal connection—physically and energetically. It’s a moment of trust, surrender, and full-bodied exploration. Perfect for queer couples, pegging partners, and prostate explorers of all kinds.

Why It Works: The chaise creates an ideal slope for penetration, easing strain on the knees, supporting his back, and positioning his pelvis for targeted stimulation. It takes the guesswork out of alignment so you can focus on sensation, connection, and mutual pleasure.

Perfect Pairing: Add some plush cuffs to deepen the dynamic, and plenty of water-based lube to keep things smooth, safe, and blissfully slippery.

His pleasure matters. Not just as an afterthought or a side benefit, but as something worthy of focus, intention, and celebration. Whether he’s your boyfriend, your husband, your queer partner, or the man who makes you melt—he deserves to feel supported, desired, and absolutely worshipped.

These positions aren’t just ways to move your bodies—they’re invitations to explore, to play, to communicate, and to connect more deeply. And when he feels elevated—physically and emotionally—you both get to revel in the reward.

So go ahead. Crown him with attention. Elevate him with intention. And give the gift of unforgettable pleasure.