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Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down: Bondage for People who don't like Bondage

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Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down: Bondage for People who don't like Bondage

Let's talk about something spicy - bondage! It's intensely erotic and intimate, and it's everywhere you look these days - from steamy romance novels to blockbuster movies like 50 Shades of Grey and Secretary. But despite all the hype, a lot of people are still hesitant to take the plunge into this exciting world. Well, fear not - whether you're a newbie or an advanced sub, there's a way to explore bondage that's comfortable and enjoyable for everyone. After all, BDSM is all about balance - the perfect mix of pain and pleasure. But that doesn't mean you have to suffer through chafed limbs, pulled muscles, and frozen joints!

With the right gear and a little know-how, you can experience all the intense sensations of bondage without any discomfort. Think soft, supple suede or fur cuffs instead of harsh metal or rough leather restraints. Trust us, you want to feel the burn in all the right places, not the bite of an uncomfortable restraint. So what are you waiting for? Saddle up and let's explore bondage for people who don't like bondage. You might just discover a whole new world of pleasure and intimacy that you never knew existed!

Black Label Bondage

My rocky exploration of bondage began in college when someone tied me up with leather belts. The experience was highly erotic and terrifying – though I worried that my candles would spark a fire and I’d roast alive idiotically tethered to my twin-sized dorm mattress. Since then, I have avoided St. Andrew’s Cross because it looks intimidating, medieval, and, most worryingly, inescapable (Not looking to reenact a vertical version of Gerald’s Game, where a wife is shackled to a bed and her husband dies of a heart attack, leaving her trapped and fending off hungry stray dogs). I tried a spanking bench, but the wood ate into my bony knees, even with padding. Argh!?! Traditional equipment deters my pursuit of bondage. How could I continue my foray into this lascivious world feeling more at ease? Enter the absolute perfect solution: Liberator Black Label – sensual bondage gear designed with ultimate comfort and effortless utility in mind.

Black Label Furniture

Black Label Divan Daybed

Brunette woman wearing wrist cuffs and blindfold, tethered to the Divan daybed with the round bolster under her hips while her brunette friend prepares to spank her

Let's start with the Divan Daybed - it's like a magical sex transformer! This bad boy serves as a spanking bench, expandable playscape, and daybed all in one amazing piece of furniture! And with hidden cuff connectors, you can clip on your favorite restraints and get freaky in no time! Plus, you get to pick out the cuffs you want when you order - choose either the microfiber with velcro straps (exquisitely soft) or the latigo leather with buckles (durable yet yielding). Both types of cuffs have clip-on connectors for lightning-fast bondage. The bolster even has hidden connectors so that you can use it as a spreader bar. The unfolded Divan is wide enough for several players AND folds out to a queen-sized guest bed! And when all the naughty fun is finished, the covers remove easily for machine washing. 

Black Label Esse Lounger II

Blonde woman on her back cuffed to Esse Lounger while a man straddles her and faces her, nose-to-nose

But that's just the beginning! The Esse Lounger II is like the Rolls Royce of sex furniture! The luxurious faux leather with seductive curves offers limitless positioning and 12 reinforced hidden clip connectors. No one will suspect the dark, sexy nature of this beauty. You can use the headrest and back scoop for more possibilities on or off the lounger. The Lounger II allows for greater stamina in standing or crouching positions, so you can ride your man cowgirl style (Yeehaw!)

The faux leather (available in buttery lambskin or textured leather) wipes clean easily and won’t get stained by lubes or other fluids. Two or three people can buck and thrust on it – the sturdy feet and a wood base provide exceptional stability. This elegant, sultry lounger complements any bedroom, living room, or sex room, inviting conversations (and sometimes debauchery). This masterpiece sets the stage for all your BDSM desires. Laundry won’t stick to this sleek bad boy, so don’t worry about forgetting it like your stationary bike. Those artful curves will entice you back again and again. 

Black Label Esse Lounger

Sandy-haired man tethered with wrist and ankle cuffs to Esse Lounger while brunette woman in red lingerie leans over him for a kiss

This baby doesn't beat around the bush - it's all about getting kinky and having fun! With 24 connector points, a headrest, and a back scoop, it looks like something straight out of a dungeon. And you know what? That's what makes it so exciting!

No matter how tall or short your partner is, you can tie them up comfortably and securely. And switching between positions is a total breeze thanks to the clip-on connectors. Plus, the headrest and back scoop make sure your sub is as comfortable as possible, so you can focus on having fun without worrying about them getting a crick in their neck. All they have to worry about is the cock or pussy in their face. 

And the best part? Just like the Divan and Lounger, you get your pick of cuffs - whether it's microfiber or leather - or you can even use silky ties or rope! Talk about versatility! So if you're ready to take your bondage game to the next level, the Black Label Esse Lounger is the kinkiest way to go.

Black Label Shapes

But wait, there's more! The Black Label Shapes are like giant squishy pillows that are perfect for all kinds of kinky fun! Shapes like the Wedge, Wedge Ramp Combo, Hipster, Obeir, and Steed provide lift, support, and open access, with expertly crafted dense foam AND they come with cuff connectors designed to clip on and off easily. They also feature removable, machine-washable covers. The Shapes are fantastic because you can use them on or off the bed, depending on where you want to tie up your partner.

Couple using Wedge Ramp Combo. Blond woman on her back, wearing wrists and ankle cuffs, tethered to the ramp, while the man pushes his pelvis against her hips

Let me tell you about the Liberator Wedge and Wedge Ramp Combo - they're the classics for a reason! With so many positions to explore, you'll never get bored. And the best part? You can easily cuff your partner and clip them in so you don't have to interrupt the action to hunt for sex stuff! Time is precious when you're bangin’! 

Pop the Wedge under your hips for effortless oral, no more neck strain for you or your partner! Or go for some deep doggy style or perfectly-angled anal — trust me, the possibilities are endless. And if you want to take things to the next level, the Wedge Ramp Combo provides even more lift and access for deeper connections and uninterrupted foreplay. It's all about those easy transitions, baby!

Blond woman wearing a leather cat-eye mask, cuffed to the Hipster. Brown hair man looking in her eyes, gripping her hip and holding his body against hers.

Take the Hipster, for example - those curves are just perfect for the reverse cowgirl, which is always a crowd-pleaser. Plus, it's great for angled oral and the standing wheelbarrow.

What about the Obeir and Steed spanking benches? These beauties are foam versions of hardcore wood and leather spanking platforms. They've got extra D-rings so that you can use them with silky ties or rope.

Let me tell you about the Steed - it's padded in all the right places for a prolonged doggy-style romp! These Shapes are truly versatile and make for a perfect addition to any bedroom or sex room.

Stocks and Bondage

Have you seen the movie "Secretary"? It's one of my all-time favorite BDSM flicks! Maggie Gyllenhall and James Spader are just so damn hot together. There's this one scene where she's wearing a metal bar with wrist stocks, all dressed up in her silky blouse and tight pencil skirt, while she fetches him coffee and memoranda. I just love the concept, but the metal? Not so much.

Brown-haired man resting his head on the Talea Spreader bar while cuffed on each end

Say hello to the Talea Spreader Bar and the Bastion Stocks. The Talea attaches to the wrists or ankles to spread your arms or legs, while the bolster provides easier access and lift for sex positions. I love a multi-purpose sex object! My partner can thrust more deeply while my hips are on the bolster and pull back on my restraints for delicious tension. Or spread my legs wide for fully open access. 

Brunette woman wearing the Bastion foam stockade, while another brunette woman holds a leash attached to the stocks, sitting on a rough hide rug

The Bastion Stocks are perfect for any sex room, dungeon, or on the road for some travel-ready bondage. And you can store it under the bed or in the closet! So far, I haven’t seen ANYTHING quite like the Bastion online. Until now, your choices were mostly rather intimidating wood or metal stockades. The Bastion is made of faux leather and ballistic nylon, over dense foam, with eight clip closures to lock up your partner’s wrists, neck, or ankles. Three additional clip connectors with metal rings offer more restraint options (attach a leash if you like!). Confining your sex convict has never been easier! 

Cuff It

Woman wearing a black padded leather bondage collar and cuff set

When it comes to bondage, comfort is key, right? That's why I always opt for fur-lined or soft leather cuffs so that I can focus on the sensations. My top pick is the Harlowe Cuff Set - it's the ultimate in luxury and softness! The inside of the wrist and ankle cuffs are lined with fluffy faux fur, and the blindfold is made of the softest lambskin that feels like heaven against your skin. Plus, it comes with a collar, lead, cuff extenders, and double-ended hook connectors - everything you need for a wild night in. I’m slightly claustrophobic, so when I get antsy during restraint play, my partner can unclip me quickly. 

My second favorite is the Mercer Cuff Set, which has a soft lambskin interior and cowhide exterior for the wrist and ankle cuffs, a cowhide collar and leash, a lambskin blindfold, and cuff extenders and double-ended hook connectors. With adjustable buckles, these cuffs offer a snug yet luxuriously soft fit that you won't want to take off. So, whether you're into hot wax play, flogging, or just want to add some kinky fun to your bedroom routine, these cuffs will definitely do the trick!

Buckle It

Blond-haired, blindfolded woman cuffed to a bed buckler bondage strap system

So you're not ready to dive into the world of full-on sex furniture or shapes, but you're curious about spicing things up? Enter the Bed Buckler! This little tether set is perfect for dipping your toe into bondage without the commitment. Just slide the straps under your mattress, box spring, or futon, and voila! You have a bondage-ready bed!

The best part? The Bed Buckler is totally portable so that you can take it with you on your naughty adventures. The velvety-soft cuffs are secured with Velcro and come equipped with Quick Clips, making it easy to switch up your restraints on the fly. Plus, the additional D-rings mean you can use any type of restraint you want, whether it's a rope, silk ties, or your favorite cuffs.

The BEST Blindfold

Brunette woman wearing LoveBlind blindfold

Not all blindfolds are created equally…lots of them leave a gap next to your nose or don’t fit securely. Or the material isn’t soft enough I really enjoy the LoveBlind Plush Bondage Blindfold. It solves all those issues. Forget awkwardly tying and untying knots or struggling with makeshift blindfolds. The lush padded velvet is dreamy against your skin; the padded nose bridge blocks out your vision entirely; and the Velcro head strap means you’ll always have a perfect fit. Visual deprivation is seriously underrated. It heightens all your other senses, making every touch feel electrifying. Trust me, you'll be begging for more! And while many of the Liberator kits come with a good blindfold, the LoveBlind Plush Bondage Blindfold is my go-to. It's just so darn comfortable and effective.

Buh Bye, Bad Bondage

Alright, Bondage Naysayers…I know that not everyone is into the whole bondage thing, and that's totally okay. There's a whole world of fabulous sensations and experiences that you might be missing out on -- and that's where bondage for people who don't like bondage saves the day. With the right Liberator gear and a willing partner, you can explore a whole new level of pleasure, connection, and intimacy. So go forth and have some fun - who knows what kind of kinky adventures you might discover!

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