I’m about to let you in on a little known secret. This is one you can pass down through the ages from father to son to grandson. If you want to greatly increase your chances of spending time between the sheets with your wife or girlfriend, you don’t need to break the bank or always have to come up with an elaborate, romantic interlude. What you need is a pair of dishpan hands and a bottle of antibacterial all purpose cleaner.
Now, this little piece of advice is not for the newly committed. You, my friend, are still required to give expensive gifts and creative declarations of love. This article is for the man who’s in an experienced, mature, committed relationship. Well, you don’t have to be that mature, but committed earns you big points. This especially applies to you if you happen to have a couple of little rug rats running around that you’ve created with your lady!
From a woman’s perspective, we want to enjoy getting our groove on as much as men do. The sexy hesitation comes from the overwhelming demands of the regular routine of the week. With work, school, kids, finances, family commitments and household maintenance, sometimes you are just too damn overwhelmed to appreciate what sex can actually do for that stress. What we sometimes need is a little reminder. Just coming out with “Hey baby, it’s been awhile, why don’t we get it on tonight” isn’t going to work. You need to warm her up.
I mentioned doing the dishes. However, that can be translated into anything that you think would get her attention and have her notice that you were thinking of her. It tells her that you want to alleviate something for her to think about, and honestly it shows a hint of appreciation, which in itself is an aphrodisiac. Do this little chore unsolicited and when she least expects it, say on a Wednesday night? There is no greater sexy motivator for a woman than to see something she’s been dreading has already been done for her, and you standing there with a smile! For a woman in a committed relationship this little act translates into romanticism as much as a big bouquet of flowers, maybe even more so! You will more than likely be pleasantly surprised at what a motivator this act can be to a woman.
So take this little piece of advice to heart fellas! The next time you find yourself daydreaming about a nighttime romp with your girl, roll up those sleeves and get busy! If you really want to guarantee some action, clean it up and decorate it with some flowers too. Instead of having to do something she really doesn’t want to do, she’ll be doing you!