If you ever thought you were the only one whose love life benefited from a little R&R, you’re wrong. We all know that feeling.

“Taking time to check-out from your hectic life, and check-in to a hotel or resort is the perfect way to rejuvenate your relationship and reconnect with your partner,” says Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Igniteyourpleasure.com.

File that under things we knew but never heard aloud.

Apparently female arousal seems to be deep relaxation and a lack of anxiety. That’s one we didn’t know but will remember.

CNN has a whole article of good stuff about why vacation sex is worth the trip alone.

Here’s one for the people not going anywhere this weekend:

Even if you’re home this week, with no immediate vacation plans on the horizon, that doesn’t mean you need to give up on the benefits of vacation sex. With a few simple touches and a little bit of imagination, you can skip the travel and enjoy a sexy staycation right in your own bedroom.